Dating, sex and parenting -- recommended conversations

1. Uncanny Vulvas: Diana Flesischman on Maiden Mother Matriarch (hosted by Louise Perry):

Uncanny vulvas

2.  Why So Many Women Feel Lost in Their 30's : Chris Williamson with Louise Perry

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkSXtukw1VA

the case against sexual revolution

3. Was the Sexual revolution a mistake?

Aella meets Louise Perry

... tbc


"Why do certain configurations of matter cause that matter to light up with awareness?" Experiencing a few moments of Mindfulness amidst the chaos. suchabrieflife@gmail.com

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